Biting the Bullet: Knowing When to Hire a Business Coach

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There are few things more fulfilling than making your own decisions, especially when it comes to the direction of your business.

Sometimes it can be hard to choose the right direction. In that case, you should see a business coach to guide you. A business coach is a professional who can show you the path through all the tough parts of owning a business. It may feel as if you’re giving up on your own abilities, but business coaches work to train you to function on your own in the future.

If you’re not sure whether you could benefit from the help of business coach, that’s OK. It’s a big step for many entrepreneurs. Some situations make it easier to decide.

Here Are the Top Signs You Should Enlist the Help of a Professional Business Coach.

1. You’re Drowning in Obligations and Decisions

Feeling overwhelmed is the biggest sign you should turn to someone else for assistance. If you simply don’t have enough hours in the day, then you’re taking on too much. If you feel as if you’re stuck in an endless loop of uncertainty and have no control, you need to bring a business coach onboard.

2. You Need to Bounce Your Ideas off Someone Else

There are business details you can’t share with your employees, friends, or family members, because they don’t have enough understanding of your business to be of any assistance. It’s important to be able to talk to someone about your company, whether it’s about making decisions or simply sharing your excitement about what you are accomplishing. A business coach is someone you can always turn to for honest feedback and support.

3. You Have Big Ideas, But They Never Come to Fruition

Have you ever drafted a brilliant concept for your company, only to beat around the bush until the idea falls back into oblivion? Business coaches are motivators, but they’re also partners. A good coach will help you break down your goals and ideas into small, achievable steps that make a difference. If your company isn’t fulfilling its potential, a coach can help.

Although it may seem a daunting task, hiring a business coach could very well be the best decision you make for your company. No one likes to tackle obstacles alone, and with the right partner, you’ll never have to go it alone.

Additional Resources:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbescoachescouncil/2016/03/24/eight-signs-its-time-to-hire-a-business-coach/#10b00cd1408d
https://www.americanexpress.com/us/small-business/openforum/articles/should-you-hire-a-business-coach/

How To Navigate Your First Year as an Entrepreneur

Congratulations on starting your new business.

In an economy where the traditional 9-to-5 job is giving way, there is plenty of room for everyone to grow. However, the first year is hard on any entrepreneur. Knowing what to expect and how to operate your business smoothly will help you navigate that year successfully.

Keep Goals Realistic

Most people begin entrepreneurship with long-term goals, such as becoming the leading service or product provider in their area. Long-term goals are great. They show you have vision. Yet focusing too much on them can leave you burned out and feeling like a failure. Keep long-term goals in mind, but make plenty of short-term ones. A short-term goal might be making X amount of money in the first month or drawing in Y number of clients.

Get a Support System

Entrepreneurship is lonely. There’s no way around it, even if you have business partners. However, you should have a support system. These people can be friends and family, mentors, and colleagues in or outside of your field. If you run a bookstore, you’ll naturally want colleagues and supporters who know books. Additionally, you’ll also want supporters in the IT business or people who serve foodstuffs that you can sell in an on-site shop.

Accept Criticism and Failure

The worst thing you can tell yourself is, “Failure is not an option.” Everyone fails, and it doesn’t mean your business will tank. Sometimes the people who tell you “no” at first will become people who say “yes” later. Listen to constructive criticism, and think about where you can change. If you aren’t sure, ask a mentor. If one change doesn’t work, make a new one. Use social media, email, and other avenues to find out what your clients like. Build on what they say.

Do What You Love

Before starting a business, think about your passions. What services or products do you want to bring to people? How do you want them to feel? What can you offer that similar businesses can’t? When you can answer these questions, you’ll know you’re in the right place.

Additional Resources:
https://www.forbes.com/sites/neilpatel/2016/01/15/top-7-tips-for-surviving-your-first-year-as-an-entrepreneur/#52feee714fbe
https://www.business.com/entrepreneurship/the-6-best-business-tips-from-leading-entrepreneurs/

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Career Coaching Interviews

Interview Primer – 5 Tips for a Good First Impression

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We all want to present our best selves in job interviews.

Unfortunately, we all make mistakes, even if we’ve prepared adequately. Most of the time, interviewees aren’t aware they’re making a mistake. If you know what to avoid, you will impress your interviewer and have a better chance of getting the job you want.

Research the Company

Interviewers appreciate it when you walk in with company knowledge. You don’t have to know everything, but doing basic homework helps. Otherwise, it may seem you don’t care about the position or the company. Start with a simple Google search and lurk around the company’s website and social media sites. Get a feel for its workplace, mission, and culture.

Dress Well

Ideally, no one should judge you by the way you look, but we don’t live in an ideal world. How you dress says plenty about who you are. The wrong clothes leave a poor impression. How you dress should be dictate in part by the company you are interviewing with. This is when that company research will come in handy. For a company with a more relaxed culture and atmosphere, it’s best to wear business casual clothing. For women, this means a dress, a skirt that hits the knee or below, or tailored slacks with a nice blouse. For men, it means khakis or tailored dark trousers, a button-down shirt, and loafers. If you’re interviewing with a law firm or another professional services firm, they will expect business attire. Overall, do not wear excessive jewelry or makeup. Cover tattoos. Don’t even think of wearing sneakers or flip-flops.

Use Proper Phone Etiquette

An interview is not the time to answer your phone, respond to a text or get notified of a friend’s Facebook post. Consider shutting your phone off during the interview, or at the very least turn the ringer off. The interview is your chance to impress your potential employers and demonstrate the kind of employee they want to hire and retain for their business. Fixating on your phone could be interpreted as disrespectful and demonstrates a lack of interest. If an employer thinks you’re wasting their time, you have no chance of getting the job.

Do Not Bring Food or Drink

If you enter with food or drink, your interviewer will think you are focusing more on it than on the task. Eating or drinking during an interview also makes you look hurried and unprofessional. Finally, many interviewees use food or drink as distractions. They play with wrappers or fiddle with coffee cups. Such gestures tell the interviewer you lack confidence and focus. Finish eating and drinking beforehand.

Ask Thoughtful Questions

Interviewers appreciate applicants who ask thoughtful questions. Ask about expectations, including how promotions are decided and what character traits the workplace needs most. If you’re replacing someone, politely ask why he or she left. Limit yourself to two or three well-thought-out questions.

Additional Resources:
https://www.thebalance.com/most-common-interview-mistakes-2061111
https://www.monster.com/career-advice/article/job-interview-mistakes

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Entrepreneurs Networking News

Join Our Private Mastermind Group Meeting

Are You In Search of a Strong Peer Network of Trusted Colleagues?

Do You Feel Stuck and Need Inspiration for Your Career or Business?

If you answered YES, then we have the perfect solution – THE MASTERMIND FOR MASTERMINDS – a private meeting among dedicated business professionals looking to exchange honest feedback, help refine new ideas and concepts, and share insights and potential leads.

Event Details:

WHEN: Monday, October 17, 2016, 8:30-11:30 am

WHERE: The Park Avenue Club, 184 Park Avenue, Florham Park, NJ 07932

COST: $59.00 p/person; includes Breakfast

Reserve Your Spot Today!

You want to tap into the experience and skills of others!
You are “stuck” and need a new perspective which can come from brainstorming with the group!
You need to increase confidence in your decisions!
You need to validate that you are taking the right actions to achieve your goals!
You need or want to find an instant and valuable support network!
You want to find a sense of shared endeavor with others in the same position you find yourself in!
You need to find new ways to jump-start your business!
You want to boost to your everyday positive mental attitude!

Who Should Attend?

Sales Consultants
Realtors
Accountants
Lawyers
Small business owners
Consultants
Fund Raisers
YOU
And anyone responsible for driving their business!

And MOST IMPORTANTLY, WHAT will you take away from The Mastermind for Masterminds?

New connections with a supportive team of Mastermind partners
Relationships with like-minded professionals who want to MEET or EXCEED their goals
New ideas for REAL CHANGE to get you where you need to be
Elevating your passion for life and work to overcome the fears that are holding you back

The Mastermind for Masterminds isn’t creating just another business network, we’re building a community of professionals dedicated to helping one another overcome obstacles and achieve greater success.

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Career Coaching Presentations Public Speaking

Delivering a Memorable Presentation in Four Steps

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Most people fear public speaking. In fact, more people fear public speaking than fear death.

Work-related presentations are often the most nerve-wracking of all, but they don’t have to be. Good preparation helps you feel confident in your material, your abilities, and the response you’ll receive from an audience.

Grab the Audience’s Attention

Start your presentation with something memorable. Avoid phrases like, “Let’s get started.” These make you look uncomfortable and uncertain about what you want to say. Tell a related anecdote. Ask a series of questions that will make your audience think, “Yes, I feel this way,” “Yes, I need this,” or “Me, too.” Sometimes you can begin with a joke or a somewhat inflammatory statement like, “I hate committee meetings.” However, use these sparingly. Read the audience members. If you don’t think they’ll respond well, then they probably won’t.

Let the Audience Focus on You, Not the Screen

Since our society is so technologically driven, presenters are tempted to rely on PowerPoint, videos, and other computer-based aids. Resist this urge. If your audience does nothing but stare at a screen, they will get bored. Some of them might fall asleep. If you must use notes, consider paper handouts, perhaps with blanks to fill in or space for questions and comments. This helps the audience interact with you.

Research First

If you don’t know what you’re talking about, your audience will figure it out quickly. Do your homework, even if you’re comfortable with the topic. Let’s say you’ve given presentations on Myers-Briggs personality types for years. Refresh your memory, so you don’t accidentally call an Artisan an Idealist. If you use statistics in your presentations, always check to ensure those numbers haven’t changed. This builds the audience’s confidence and trust.

Keep It Short

Many audiences dread speakers, assuming they’ll drone on forever. Smash that expectation with a short speech. Beforehand, choose two to four points you want to hit and make sure you cover them within a reasonable period. If you have a time limit, respect it. Going over your allotted time affects everyone’s schedule.

Additional Resources:
https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/274646
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/young-entrepreneur-council/the-4-qualities-of-a-succ_b_10755688.html

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Culinary Connections Networking News

Culinary Connections is Back!

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You are Cordially Invited to Attend the First in Our Four-Part Series of Culinary Connections!

Culinary Connections is an exclusive networking event for professionals from all walks of business who are passionate about making the right connections over great wine and food. Take your networking skills to the next level and join us for a night full of connections, opportunities and fun.

No special skills required: just a love of great people, great wine and great food in a beautiful four star setting.

Park Avenue Club

The Park Avenue Club’s incredible team of professionals are completely dedicated to elegantly extending all of the comforts and desires one would need or want in any of its private dining rooms.

The Park Avenue Club’s Executive Chef, Arnold Kruck, and his talented team take creative food concepts and turn them into exquisite gastronomical masterpieces.

The Club’s Food & Beverage Manager and on-staff Sommelier work creatively together to continuously bring the best in the way of wine, imaginative cocktails and service.

EVENT DETAILS:

Small Plates Dining & Networking at The Park Avenue Club

WHEN: Wednesday, October 26, 2016 • 6:30-8:30pm
WHERE: Park Avenue Club, 184 Park Ave, Florham Park, NJ 07932, www.parkavenueclub.com
COST: $99.00 per ticket

Due to the nature of this very special event, attendance will be capped at 40 attendees.

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With Special Thanks to Our Sponsors:

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Here’s What People Are Saying:

“Thank you for having me last Wednesday! I really enjoyed the culinary portion of the event as well as the networking.”
– Richard Sodeke, Media Sales Associate at Felix

“What a lovely evening last night. I loved that we were standing in the kitchen watching the handsome chef with his adorable French accent, cooking delicious food that we could eat immediately. How often does one get that opportunity to see behind the scenes, other than on television where it sometimes seems scripted? The event was beautiful, the location was stunning, and the camaraderie in the room – priceless!”
– Eileen Berman, eileenbergman.com

“Great event last night, truly. Thank you! When I hit the road and sat in the driving rain and traffic coming from Newark, I thought about how nice it would be to go home! Boy am I glad that I made the commitment to you (and to me) to come because I would have missed a wonderful time meeting great folks.”
– Lori Chapin, Attorney, Sedgwick, LLP

“Thank you for a great event! I adored your friends and clients.”
– Denise Gaffney, Area Development Manager, Etcetera; Regional VP, National Association of Professional Women

“The Restaurant Serenade installment of Culinary Connections was excellent – great food and wine as well as great new faces to share it with. I look forward to the next Culinary Connections event in April and joining the Course Connections group in the spring.”
– Marty Eide, Attorney, Markel Corporation

Golf Networking News

World-Class Networkers at Course Connections

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Many Great Connections Were Made at September’s Course Connections!

First let me thank our Course Connections sponsors, Christal McElroy of EisnerAmper, Karolina Dehnhard, Budd Larner, and Vince Egan, Benjamin Edwards who understand the power of making the right connections on the golf course!

And many thanks to our wonderful pro, Joe Haggerty. Joe is a great pro, and feel free to contact him if you want to continue with private lessons with him!

GREAT FRIENDS & NEW ASSOCIATES

And thanks to all of YOU for joining last Thursday’s Course Connections! I have heard from many of you that a lot of great connections were made!

And we had quite a few new connectors join us: Gary Shor, AEPG Wealth Strategies, Rebecca Golembiski, Ameriprise Financial, Andrea Noyes, Noyes Insurance Agency, Gerry Jacob, Investors Bank, Tracy Tyler, Strategies for Success, Jean Oursler, The Business Growth Company, Rosanne DeTorres, DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law and Sharon Kornstein, Image Design Consulting.

What an amazing group of professionals and world-class networkers!

PHOTOS FROM COURSE CONNECTIONS:

SAVE THE DATES

Finally, please Save the Dates for the first two of four Culinary Connections events. Wednesday October 26^th we will be at the private, very elegant Park Avenue Club in Florham Park, where Chef Arnold will celebrate autumn with small plates, and Thursday December 1^stwe are in The Wine Cellar at Highlawn Pavilion where we will celebrate the holidays!

We are always looking for sponsors for upcoming events. Please let me know if you are interested in sponsoring one or all of our upcoming Culinary Connections events! A great way to get your name out there. Please email or call me for more info!

Thank you again everyone. You are an awesome group and I am thrilled that you came. And please don’t forget to send me details on any great connections you have made at Course Connections this summer!

I look forward to seeing you soon!

Susan Ascher

HERE’S WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT COURSE CONNECTIONS:

“Such a beautiful evening! Susan is the perfect host. I can see why she is such a successful life and work coach!!”

“Thank you so much Susan Ascher. Course Connections was so fabulous! I loved the golf lesson and golfing and meeting so many wonderful, accomplished people for the networking cocktail party afterwards. You are amazing at bringing people together.”

“I am so glad I attended this wonderful event. Not only did I get to play golf but I got to meet some amazing and accomplished people. I can’t wait for the next one!”

COURSE CONNECTIONS SPONSORS:

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Coaching Communication Workplace

3 Ways to Improve Communication in the Workplace

No matter your field, communication skills are a must.

Poor communication leads to mistakes, some of which can be irreparable and can damage your reputation with employees and clients. However, good business communication is a learned skill, and you can improve your skills. Familiarizing yourself with some basic rules will dramatically improve communication in your workplace.

Be Careful With Email

Email is a great tool – it allows employees to pass messages quickly and easily organize reams of information. Email has its downsides, though. For one thing, it is not always secure. Sometimes people you didn’t want to see a message end up knowing sensitive information before they should. Other times, a stray email can make a department worry about matters that don’t affect it. Always make sure your email accounts are secure and that you send messages only to those who need them.

Additionally, be careful when phrasing emails. Do not use all caps or excessive punctuation. This makes the reader feel you’re yelling at him or her. Don’t use sarcasm, even if you think the reader will take it as meant. Be as formal and polite as possible.

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Collaborate Often

Employees don’t like to feel isolated, but they do like to bounce ideas off each other. Collaborative work makes this possible. Assign team projects often. If you can’t, use computer and email applications that let different people work on the same documents. This lets employees see and respond to each other’s ideas and changes in real time.

Encourage Speaking Up

Some workplaces don’t encourage employees to speak up. Sometimes employees fear discipline if they offer a dissenting opinion. Don’t let your workplace become one of these environments. Encourage employees to share their likes, dislikes, needs, and struggles. You may find that many employees share the same concerns, which makes it easier to implement changes.

Additional Resources:
https://www.smallbizdaily.com/3-tips-for-improving-communication-within-your-new-business/
https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newCS_99.htm

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Career Coaching Solopreneur

Insights from a Solopreneur Coach: Avoid Burnout and Set Yourself Up for Success

As a solopreneur, you are in charge of everything from the way you brand yourself to building a sufficient book of business.

Your energy and enthusiasm in the first few months will be high as you begin to see the possibilities in your new venture. Over time, though, this initial rush of adrenaline may fade and leave you feeling exhausted handling daily operations.

Don’t give up. You can find balance, maintain your independence, and succeed as a solopreneur. Consider these insights as your guide to achieving manageable success in the first years of business:

Create a schedule. Many people believe it was Benjamin Franklin who said, “Failing to plan is planning to fail.” In a solopreneur venture, your time is money. As a one-person band, you will need to set aside time for profit-generating work, as well as office administration. Use an app such as Toggl to manage time, and look into solutions for workflow automation to maximize your time during each day.

Get ahead. As a solopreneur, time away from work can significantly hinder your business. Instead of constantly playing catch up, consider working ahead of schedule as much as possible. Give yourself the freedom to enjoy personal activities when you’ve got an afternoon or a free weekend because you worked really hard during the week.

Prioritize your health. While the immediacy of a project may lure you into the office at all hours, avoid working beyond your means. Eat regular, nutritious meals, exercise for at least 30 minutes every day, and don’t sacrifice your sleep. Over time, bad habits will catch up to you and may jeopardize your ability to maintain a successful business.

Consider outsourcing some of your business activities. Outsourcing has become an affordable option for businesses of all shapes and sizes. Let someone else handle your payroll so you can focus on bringing in more leads, or invest in outside marketing while you cater to your current client base.

Stay hungry for educational opportunities. Work smarter to boost your output and increase the value of your business. Consider investing in solopreneur coaching, regular seminars, and online courses to stay current in the industry and maximize your earning potential.

Get a handle on money management. Finances are a huge source of stress for individuals and business leaders. As a solopreneur, money management affects both your business and your personal quality of life. Save money and create a buffer for the future as much as possible. Sticking to a budget will reduce stress and improve the financial health of your solopreneur venture.

Whether you decide to hire a solopreneur coach to maximize your potential, or to take some time for yourself every day, make a commitment to do something new for your business on a regular basis. A solopreneur business should ultimately deliver the freedom and success you’ve always wanted.

Additional resources:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/zinakumok/2016/04/30/stressed-out-solopreneur-5-tips-to-prevent-entrepreneurial-burnout/#150d514d5d97
https://thedailypositive.com/how-to-be-a-successful-solopreneur/
https://justworks.com/blog/avoid-solopreneur-fatigue-survival-tips

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Coaching Communication Leadership

Improve Business Outcomes with These Communication Tactics

Business leaders and supervisors are not the only ones responsible for strong workplace communication.

Every employee needs successful communication skills to avoid communication breakdown and engage productively with others. The way you speak to and listen to others is not only polite, it’s a leadership skill that will serve you well in any line of work.

If you are worried about communication in the workplace, start with you. Instead of complaining or criticizing other team members, look at your own communication skills. Are you setting a good example of positive and respectful communication on a daily basis, or are you contributing to potential difficulties?

Here are some of the most effective strategies business leaders can use to avoid communication breakdown and thrive in the workplace:

Encourage free-flowing communication. Empower team members to engage with each other on a regular basis. Assign a point person for certain assignments and projects, but give everyone an opportunity to make decisions and engage on an equal playing field. When employees feel they can speak openly, businesses often discover innovative new solutions and improved productivity rates.

Invest in collaboration services. In today’s world, more employees are working from home or on the go. Instead of relying on regular meetings, phone calls, and emailed communications, consider investing in collaboration solutions, such as instant-messaging services and document-sharing programs. Make communication an easy part of the daily workflow.

Teach, preach, and showcase positive communication. In school, someone might take a class on public speaking or mass communications, but they rarely learn about effective interpersonal communication. Consider hiring a communications expert to provide a seminar on workplace communication skills. Understanding the elements of good communication in-person, online, and on the phone will help employees maintain mindfulness of their own behaviors.

Remember every employee is an asset. Don’t dismiss someone based on rank and file. Sometimes, the most innovative solutions come from unexpected places. When leaders show consideration to every employee, they can build morale and loyalty among all staff members.

Help employees see their contributions. Take time to recognize individuals, teams, and departments during organizational meetings. Then, give them the power to take their success further. Educate everyone on the current state of the business and goals for the future so everyone feels actively engaged in meaningful business outcomes. Taking the time to instill a sense of pride in employees will improve job satisfaction rates and may reduce employee turnover.

Add communication goals to the list for your next strategic planning meeting. Strong, company-wide collaboration skills take time to develop, but will serve your business well. Take the time to avoid communication breakdown and see how far your team, department, and business can go.

Additional resources:
https://www.forbes.com/sites/mnewlands/2016/01/26/5-proven-ways-to-improve-your-companys-communication/#71976515b527
https://www.fastcompany.com/3048749/hit-the-ground-running/3-steps-to-vastly-improving-your-companys-communication
https://www.sandler.com/blog/5-strategies-improve-communication-workplace